🖤👑❤️ ~Christina Love~ 🖤👑

🖤 ~Happyyy Loveuary, sweet lovelies! ❤️ I hope y’all are enjoying this love month, february! ❤️ Whether you are in a relationship or single, it is still the loveuary month for you! ❤️

🖤 ~For now though, I want to talk about that moment in time that stands still when you begin talking with someone for the first time, when you exchange those very first few messages, those sweet messages…when you cannot wait to hear from your special person(although, i am still like this, always excited to hear from my special person! not just at the beginning!).

❤️ ~when your heart skips a beat when their name appears on your phone, when they call you and you hear their voice and your entire day is made by hearing from them, when all you find yourself thinking about is this amazing soul that you have been blessed to have in your life. ❤️

❤️ ~Then, when you finally meet in person, and you look into their eyes for the very first time and your soul melts, your heart melts, your body gets all warm and you take a deep breath…yesss, is that love at first sight?!! I certainly believe so! ❤️

🖤 ~We have heard them say that love at first sight or first connection/conversation is not real and cannot happen, maybe a few will say that it can happen. Do you believe in love at first sight? Do you believe in that powerful soul connection instantly? Do you believe in that spiritual connection with someone instantly even without actually meeting them in person yet?!! ❤️ Again, I most definitely do!

🖤 ~See, I am not talking about just that physical chemistry, we all want that, but there has to be more. I am talking about that soul-fire that you feel way down deep in your heart and soul, that feeling that you never had before, or maybe you have had a feeling close to that and you never thought you would again… 🙏

🖤 ~Makes ya think, doesn’t it?!! I mean, we hear about these relationships and marriages that are broken after years of dating and a short time married, so when you think about it, does it have to be a long courtship? Nope! No way! 🙌

🖤 ~For those that are online dating, Do you believe in that deep soul connection just by looking at that person’s photograph on that dating site?!!

🖤 ~Ohhh stop, don’t act like you are holier than thou just because you have not been on an online dating site! 🙄 I really do not like it when people like to judge others for their love story, it is not yours! If you don’t like it, ignore it! So simple.

🖤 ~Everyone’s fairy tale is different and no one’s looks the same. Now, back to my question!

🖤 ~If I asked you right now, if you believe in love at first sight or first conversation, do ya?!! 🥰

🖤 ~I certainly do! 🥰 I love hard though, i give all that I have and I give all that I don’t have. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am an empath, which is a blessing but is also exhausting. Being a giver never makes anything simple or easy, it is actually the complete opposite, it makes everything so much deeper and complicated. It is a gift though and I am forever grateful to Jesus!🙌

🖤 ~I believe that we can meet our soulmate in a moment and just know. I don’t believe in having to date someone for months and years to know. It just doesn’t always have to work that way, in my mind. Yes, a person can be on their best behavior at the beginning, but it’s their actions that you have to pay attention to, not just their words. Do their actions coincide with their words, to the best of their ability? Are they trying? That does not mean perfection either! It just means, if they are trying their best, that is what matters! 🙌

🖤 ~We all have flaws, many flaws, we all have scars, deep scars and deep wounds, but when we fall in love with someone, we fall in love with all of them. I think we all live in this abnormal thought process in our minds, of how perfect a person is supposed to be, when in reality, that is not even possible. Jesus is the only perfect person! 🙌

🖤 ~That does not mean that we allow disrespect or someone that is not loyal. It just means that if we feel like they are doing their best to have their actions follow their words, then we should keep that in mind while deciding if we want to move forward with that person. Communication is so crucial and when we care deeply, we work through the rough times to make the foundation stronger, with this special soul that we care so much for and love. ❤️

🖤 ~Actions speak louder than words, but, if someone’s life is not aligning with their words, their beliefs, their values, and with Jesus, take all of that into consideration.

🖤 ~Pay attention to their patterns, not just what they say. Take all of it into account and consider it all. Love does not always show up in the normal ways. We must be open to finding love in many different ways, everyone’s normal is not the same.

🖤 ~So, if you are searching for love, whether it be online or just meeting someone by chance, don’t think that you have to be the same as others with how your fairy tale begins, because it shouldn’t be! Let your love story be yours! Let your love story be your favorite story of all! ❤️

❤️ ~Take a moment and listen to one of my favorites, below… the King, Elvis Presley! 🖤 i love his song “I can’t help falling in love with you”! ❤️ sooo romantic!~ ❤️

❤️🖤 ~much love, y’all~

❤️ 👑 ~christina love~ 🖤

❤️🖤 ~i can’t help falling in love with you…